Dearest Gentle Reader, Season’s greetings 🤍 If I’m being honest, I didn’t keep all the promises I made to myself and to you guys in January 2025🥺. And for a long time, that bothered me a whole lot. But looking back now, I understand why. Last year needed me to pause, to learn, to unlearn, and to grow, and I’m grateful for every part of it. One of the biggest lessons came from choosing a career path. As a Microbiology graduate who genuinely enjoyed every aspect of the course (weirdly so), deciding what direction to take wasn’t easy. I felt pulled in many directions, unsure of where I truly belonged. Eventually, I ran back to God for clarity and slowly, things began to align. That clarity led me to academic writing. It was something I had always been interested in but never quite knew how to begin. When I finally took the leap, it was challenging, exciting, and deeply fulfilling. I’m incredibly grateful to everyone who referred me, trusted my work, and supported my journey. Thank you f...
Boundaries Yes a topic that is constantly avoided and overlooked but is very important for our well-being. Saying yes to every request is often seen as a virtue. Setting boundaries is not about being selfish or controlling; it’s about being intentional and respectful of ourselves and others. Boundaries are like gates in our compounds. They help us to control who and what comes in and who stays out. They help us protect our time, energy and emotional well-being. They are essential for maintaining healthy relationships, prioritizing self care and achieving goals. Without them you become like bus stop; everyone’s coming and going and you are left feeling drained, frustrated and disrespected. For a long time, I struggled to say no to any request, no matter how challenging it was. My automatic response was always yes, which took a toll on me. I recall one instance where I was asked for answers in the hall and tried to help, only to get caught. I almost filled malpractice fo...