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2025 Recap

Dearest Gentle Reader, Season’s greetings 🀍 If I’m being honest, I didn’t keep all the promises I made to myself and to you guys in January 2025πŸ₯Ί. And for a long time, that bothered me a whole lot. But looking back now, I understand why. Last year needed me to pause, to learn, to unlearn, and to grow, and I’m grateful for every part of it. One of the biggest lessons came from choosing a career path. As a Microbiology graduate who genuinely enjoyed every aspect of the course (weirdly so), deciding what direction to take wasn’t easy. I felt pulled in many directions, unsure of where I truly belonged. Eventually, I ran back to God for clarity and slowly, things began to align. That clarity led me to academic writing. It was something I had always been interested in but never quite knew how to begin. When I finally took the leap, it was challenging, exciting, and deeply fulfilling. I’m incredibly grateful to everyone who referred me, trusted my work, and supported my journey. Thank you f...

Blogversary: 12 Months of Writing, Growing, and Connecting


On 12th August 2024, I hit the publish button for the very first time.
I wasn’t even sure what I wanted to do with this platform πŸ€”
All I knew was that I had thoughts in my head and maybe this was the place to finally let them out.

I thought it would just be me ranting into the void. But it turned into so much more.
It became a community of people who get me, who understand where I’m coming from, who read my words and say, “exactlyyyyy, I feel this too.” πŸ’›


From “Just Rants” to Reaching Lives 🌍

In the past year, my posts have made people cry, laugh, and whisper to themselves, “Oh, I needed to hear this today.”
That’s when I realized I wasn’t just ranting as I thought.
I was filling voids.
I was reaching lives.

24 blog posts later, this little corner of the internet has reached readers across several nations of the world 🌎 Something I honestly never imagined when I started.

This blog has been my safe space, my creative outlet, and the one place where I get to say my thoughts completely unfiltered.


The Friends Who Pushed Me πŸ™Œ

My friend Gbemi is the reason this blog even exists.
Back in school, she reminded me I always said I’d own a blog but never actually did.

I created this blog in 2020 when I discovered my love for writing, but fear no gree me post anything πŸ˜….
It wasn’t until 2024 that I finally took the leap.

The first few posts? I sent them to Gbemi to proofread because my confidence was chilling somewhere far away. And all through, my friend Ohis kept motivating me, cheering me on every time I doubted myself. Together, they made sure I remembered I had something worth saying.

Growth, Even in the Chaos 🌱

Over the past year, I’ve seen growth in my writing and in how I connect with others.
There were months I didn’t write as much as I wanted because life was happening and lifing πŸ˜‚πŸ˜­(and yes, I’ll probably rant about that here someday πŸ‘€)
There were posts I wasn’t so sure about, moments my flow was “bad bad” πŸ˜‚ but you stayed.


A Note to My Readers πŸ’Œ

To my community, my family, my readers, thank you.
Thank you for reading this little girl’s rants and finding pieces of yourself in them.
Thank you for sharing my posts.
Thank you for reaching out in comments, messages, and on socials.
Thank you for sticking with me even when I wasn’t as consistent as I wanted to be.

You’re the reason I still show up here πŸ’›


What’s Next πŸš€

The next chapter?
More honesty. More real-life conversations. More writing that speaks to both of us.


πŸ’‘ Mini Challenge
Tell me in the comments ; what’s the one blog post I’ve written that stayed with you the most?

If you’re new here, pick one that speaks to you and share why.

🎁 Giveaway
I’ll pick two people from the comments to win a gift

Winners will be announced in one week!

Comments

  1. Definitely this: 1. The burden of being the family bank..

    It resonated deeply with me.

    You have such lovely support systems, I love that for you.

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    1. πŸ₯ΊπŸ₯Ί
      Thank you so much
      I’m glad you could relate
      Ps: I’ll love to speak to you I hope you see this

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  2. Looking forward to more from you.

    Congratulations πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰

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